WFMW: dry milk

One of the best money saving tips I ever received was to use dry milk in all my baking and cooking. I use it is muffins, pancakes, waffles, soups, breads, desserts, gravy, hot chocolate, etc. With regular milk at over $3 a gallon, who can afford to cook with it? And it really isn't that much less convenient than pouring from the carton.

But it can save you in other areas as well. For instance, instead of buying canned evaporated milk, try this tip that I use frequently:

mix equal parts dry milk and water; stir or shake vigorously. Use in any recipe calling for evaporated milk.

Costs just pennies! Did I ever mention I love dry milk? Not to drink of course, but if you use milk for cooking and baking, you can bring down the milk bill using the dry stuff. I even use dry buttermilk for all my buttermilk baking - yum!

I also have a recipe for sweetened condensed milk, but I have never personally used it, so I cannot vouch for it, nor have I figured out the cost versus buying a can. But I figure anything that saves me a trip to the grocery store is a money saver right there.

1 C instant non fat dry milk solids
2/3 C sugar
1/3 C boiling water
3T butter

Combine all ingredients in an electric blender (or pour in a bowl and use an electric mixer). Process until smooth. Store in refrigerator until needed (and refrigerate any leftovers as well).

If you've ever used this one, please comment and let us know how it works.

Talk about melting your heart...

This morning when I was changing Lauryn's diaper right after she woke up, she asked me, "Mama not bye bye more?"

No, honey, Mama's not going bye-bye anymore. At least for a while. For now, Mommy is perfectly happy being at home.

Mommy's home!

I don't have alot of time, but I got back into town around 4:00 this afternoon. I believe everyone was happy to see me, including Lauryn who gave me long, slobbery kisses. The house was clean, the kids fed, laundry done, and as far as I can tell, chores done as well. They also got in some movies and a trip to Sonic. Sounds like they had as good a time as I did... ok, maybe not, but close. :)

This was such a convicting time for me. I have much to mull over in the coming days. If you are a mom, especially a stay-at home or homeschooling mom, please consider going to one of these conferences. Well, I am going to go spend some time with my children and husband!

Whole Hearted Mothers

After tonight, you probably won't hear from me again until Sunday or Monday. That's because I will be leaving early in the morning for our annual Whole Hearted Mother's Conference. Every February (with the exception of last year), Clay and Sally Clarkson host a wonderful weekend, aimed at stay-at-home and homeschooling moms, although any mother is welcome. It is not a homeschooling conference as we think of it - there are no discussions of how to teach fractions, the best writing curriculum, or which foreign language to study. This would be more aptly called a mother's retreat than a conference. We stay in a nice hotel, eat some good food, listen to inspirational speakers, and just enjoy a getaway weekend.

It is such a refreshing time to step away from the fray for a few days and to get recharged and refocused. The whole theme of the weekend is basically to remind us as mothers of what we are called to do. It is so easy to get caught up in the seemingly endless daily round of dirty diapers, meals to be prepared, laundry to do, lessons to teach. For this one weekend a year, we get to get away from these daily tasks while at the same time be reminded and encouraged about why these and the other responsibilities of motherhood are so important and are actually blessings. For a great description of the weekend see my friend and mentor Cathi's blog on it.

What also makes this weekend special is the fact that there are about a dozen or so women from our homeschool group are caravaning up there together. It is such a great time to get to know everyone better, and really cement the sense of community between us.

And of course, we couldn't do it without all the dads, most of whom are taking a day off work in order to be home with the children all weekend. We have a running joke in our group about this weekend, calling them the "half-hearted fathers" but nothing could really be further from the truth. Especially my husband who will be in estrogen overload here at the housefullofgirls. Thank you all, and especially you, Kelly, for making this weekend possible for us.

The Vaccine Uproar

Here in Texas there is quite an uproar about the governor's recent executive order to require pre-teen girls to receive a vaccine against the HPV virus before they can attend school. Now before I get into this, I want to state that Kelly and I have not decided whether or not we will give this vaccine to our girls. Since we homeschool, this order does not directly affect our family. We don't know enough about this vaccine yet to make that determination.

BUT, I have to say, I have been so surprised at the reaction across the state to this order. Even within my family there has been outrage from unexpected quarters. And frankly I don't get it.

Why this vaccine? Why not the Hepatitis A or B? Is it that this one is transmitted completely through intimate contact? The parents across the state see this as a violation of their rights to make medical decisions for their children.

And they are right of course. But my point is THAT THIS IS NO DIFFERENT FROM THE OTHER VACCINES, from the state education sex education, and other such things that come part and parcel along with government run education. Frankly, if you think that they have a right to demand your child have all the other vaccines, I don't see why you object to this one.

Yes, I know several of the other vaccines prevent illnesses that are airborne, and thus present a different threat. But (1) this does not trump the responsibility the parent has for the health and wellness of their children, made in consultation with a medical professionals, and (2) in the climate of sexual permissiveness that pervades that public schools these days, the difference between STD and airborne diseases is not as much as one would think.

Now our family is not anti-vaccines. We do give our children most of the shots available. Not all, but most. But we make this decision based upon our own research, upon the advice of our physician, and with much prayer. Not based upon what bureaucrats somewhere have decided would be best for my children, whom they have never seen.

WFMW: the shower floor

I spent quite a while yesterday afternoon while the girls were down for their reading/nap time cleaning the shower in the master bath. This is hands down my least favorite cleaning chore in the whole house. No matter that the water softener has made the job somewhat easier, I still hate it. But, last year I found a product that makes part of the job so much easier.

The Mr. Clean Magic Eraser is a WONDER on the textured floor of my shower. I prefer the heavy duty version for this particular task to the standard eraser, but either works. Not even bleach gel could get the floor of my shower back to its original whiteness, but this eraser does! Just wet it and use good ol' fashioned elbow grease. The dirt et. al. just comes up off that textured stuff like, well, like pencil erased off paper. Then just rinse the debris away, and voila! A shiny white shower floor.

Now if I could only find something that worked that well and that smell-free on the rest of the shower! The stuff I use on the water spots requires us to run the vent for the rest of the day.

Oh, and I did discover a good book on tape helps the job go alot faster.

Caveat: There have been reports of children harming themselves with these erasers, thinking they are ordinary sponges. But there are chemicals in them. So while my kids do alot of the cleaning around here, these little jewels stay up out of their reach. So if you take my advice on these, please be careful with them around the kiddos.

He's got a ticket to ride...

A couple of weeks ago, the whole family was in the Suburban driving to our pastor's house. Here is a snippet of the conversation:

(Kelly punches the gas pedal to get around a slowing car.)

Kora: How fast are you going? The speed limit is only 35.

Me: Not as fast as it sounded. That was just the engine revving up you heard.

Kora: Well, if Daddy goes too fast he'll get a ticket.

Brynna: A ticket to what?



And Saturday night, after Brynna received her allowance, she counted up and discovered she had saved up enough money to buy a Barbie doll she has been wanting. So we got on the computer and ordered it. Hailey had been down here with us while we were looking for the cheapest place, but had soon wondered upstairs. When we finally placed the order, Brynna rushed upstairs to find Hailey.

Brynna: Hailey, I got her! I bought Courtney!

Hailey (examining Brynna's hands): Where is she?